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March 3, 2023

Farewell to a kid brother

Farewell to a kid brother

The late Elemchukwu Ellah

By Donu Kogbara

MOST folks called him Mike. I called him Chuks, an abbreviation of his middle name, Elemchukwu. We met when he was a toddler. I wasn’t much older.

Our beloved and distinguished late fathers – Senator Francis Ellah and Ignatius Kogbara – had attended the same Catholic secondary school – Holy Family in Abak, Akwa Ibom State; and Chuks and I wound up kinda following in their footsteps and being sent (as teenagers) to Mayfield Convent for girls and Mayfield College for boys, Catholic boarding schools that were in the same picturesque English village.

There weren’t many Nigerians in that neck of the woods; and I related to Chuks like a bossy senior sister, regularly summoning him to join me on Saturdays for cakes, tea and discussions about his academic progress at a popular local cafe called April Cottage.

I need not have worried about his grades. Chuks was born with a very big brain and frequently got excellent results, not just coming top of his class but breaking school records. Our friendship continued into adulthood and included several members of our respective families, plus spouses and in-laws.

I have so many happy memories of partying and arguing about current affairs – in the UK and Port Harcourt – with Chuks and his older brothers, Frank and Patrick (who also went to Mayfield). I used to think of them as the Three Musketeers.

Chuks, who became a lawyer, had a very serious side; but he also possessed a great sense of humour and was a sociable expert arranger of delicious crab peppersoup when we were at home.

He also shared my fondness for Vanity Fair, an artsy-intellectual American magazine. We used to hang out at the Port Harcourt polo club, talking about sophisticated developments on the other side of the world and wishing that Nigeria could fulfil its potential.

As I write, tears are pouring down my face because Chuks left us, on Valentine’s Day of all days. He went on a day that is famously dedicated to love. Very fitting for a quintessential gent who was adored by many and lavished affection on his nearest and dearest. Members of his profession will honour him in a valedictory session that will take place in Port Harcourt’s Ceremonial Court this morning.

He will be buried tomorrow in his ancestral home. Let me seize this opportunity to effusively thank Patricia, his wonderful wife, for taking such good care of him during his prolonged illness, which was triggered off by a horse-riding accident.

Patricia’s sacrifices and labour of love will never be forgotten. She is a valiant prayer warrior whose unwavering faith kept her and Chuks going through the darkest hours. And I pray that she will find the strength to make the best of the rest of her life without Chuks.

On behalf of my mum, Anne, my siblings (Lela, Poage, Dumle), my son Oliver Midgley and the entire Kogbara clan of Bodo City, Ogoniland, I offer deepest condolences to Chuks’s heartbroken family: Patricia, her lovely daughters, my darling Auntie Pat (nee Obowu), his amazing mother, the remaining two musketeers and the entire Ellah and Obowu clans of Omoku in Ogbaland, Rivers State. 

May their anguish be eased by the passage of time. May Chuks rest in perfect peace in the bosom of Almighty God.

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Senator Magnus Abe

My other candidate

I AM utterly traumatised by the chronic inefficiency, disgraceful skulduggery and shocking violence that characterised last weekend’s presidential election and probably robbed the main Opposition candidates – Atiku Abubakar of the Peoples Democratic Party, PDP, and the Labour Party (and Donu!) candidate, Peter Obi – of millions of votes. 

I am not alone. So many Nigerians are feeling demoralised and disgusted; and there’s a widespread sense of despair about the fact that we were not treated with respect and allowed the free and fair election that the Independent National Electoral Commission, INEC, promised us.

I’m in my home state, Rivers, at the moment. We have been officially informed that Bola Ahmed Tinubu, the candidate of the ruling All Progressives Congress, APC, candidate, won the election here.

However, YIAGA AFRICA, a civil rights organisation, has said that these results were manipulated. And you only have to spend a few hours in Rivers State to know that almost all of its adult inhabitants are either diehard Obi-dients or longstanding PDP addicts. 

Several of the people I’ve spoken to here are accusing the Governor, Nyesom Wike, INEC and security personnel of swindling the electorate. And I’ve repeatedly been told that voters won’t bother with next weekend’s gubernatorial and state house of assembly elections because they don’t see the point of queuing up in the hot sun for hours at polling units if their votes aren’t going to count.

But I personally think that the polls on March 11 will be better than the polls we’ve just concluded because there have been so many bitter protests about the latter that INEC et al are likely to conduct themselves less appallingly the next time around. And I’m begging all disillusioned Rivers people who believe in justice to NOT abandon their democratic rights…and to vote for my gubernatorial candidate and brother, Senator Magnus Abe.

Abe is an Ogoni like me. He’s highly intelligent. He has a substantial track record of public service. And our ethnic group has never been allowed to produce a single governor, deputy governor, chief judge or speaker of the State House Of Assembly. And it is not as if we lack numbers or education or exposed individuals who possess leadership qualities.

Wike, meanwhile, is the third consecutive Ikwerre governor we have had. We have also had quite a few Ijaw governors, chief judges, etc. Enough is enough! Vote Abe and against ethnic exclusion! Give Ogonis a chance, for a change!!!