Dear Bunmi, I feel like leaving without letting him know
I’m currently on the lookout for a new place, then move all my stuff out. By the time he comes home, I’ll be long gone and it will be as if I was never there, and I will never have to speak to him again. Am I being mean?
Dear Bunmi, fair-weather friend
When my friend comes to spend time with me, I pay for everything. Recently, I went to her place and she treated me shabbily. She barely cooked, and begrudged me a second piece of meat. One evening, she refused to let me have a bath because she claimed she bought water all the time. Read […]
Dear Bunmi, is he controlling me through sex?
I love my boyfriend but when he wants sex, he wants it right away. It can be when I’m about to leave for work, I’m getting ready to meet friends, or just in a hurry to get something done at home. Read Also: Dear Bunmi, will he ever propose after 19 years together? I used […]
Couldn’t stand his steward having all the fund!!
By Bunmi Sofola Bolaji is a cherished friend I’ve known for years and he loves a good gossip. Most of all, he’s learnt to laugh at himself from time to time no matter at what cost. It’s always a pleasure to listen to him on the few occasions he finds the time to phone. When […]
Dear Bunmi, will he ever propose after 19 years together?
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 20 years and we have two children whom he takes full responsibility for. We’ve discussed marriage but he says with the high rate of divorce and the experience he’s had living in a polygamous home, he doesn’t want the hassle of a divorce if we ever […]
Dear Bunmi, my ‘detective’ work paid off!
A few months ago, I found a business card with a girl’s name and phone number in my man’s wallet. It was someone in his office, and I suspected instantly what was going on. The next time he went away on his numerous business trips, I rang his usual hotel the day I knew he […]
