“Dear Bunmi, I ran into a friend of hers who confessed a few of them had sought the services of some Aristos, aka Sugar Daddies, to make ends meet. I was shocked, to say the least”

As one ages, the battle  to keep young  becomes a bit daunting.  The grey hair keep increasing, so are the frown lines and chin whiskers! 

Dear Bunmi, even with her pregnancy, we continued to have sex until she had her baby girl. She doesn’t look like me. But what if she is mine?

Dear Bunmi, she then moved out before the date I said the second wife was moving in, and my mother moved in with her! It was a betrayal.

“As ejaculation nears, a man surrenders all control. At that critical moment, your well-being is irrelevant to his needs”

Dear Bunmi, at first he didn’t see eye-to-eye with my first daughter, and they argued a lot. In fact, it was so bad that my daughter went back to live with her father.

‘Recognise the bitterness your friend’s prosperity sometime evokes in you. Admit to her that, by comparison, you are as poor as can be’

“Dear Bunmi, my lover is happily married, so what we had was a fling. But why was I attracted to another man, when I love my husband? Is my marriage doomed?”

By Bunmi Sofola One of the serious problems of second marriages is bonding with your step-children. It becomes a bit complicated when you have children of your own. Your step-children are instantly on the defensive – you love your children more than you love them, treat your children better and tell on them to their […]

By Bunmi Sofola One of the biggest mistakes you can make is put your friend up in your flat ‘on a temporary basis’ especially when your place is a bit crammed.  Bilikis was desperate for a place to stay and Anne, her childhood friend put her up.  But now Ann’s ‘guest’ had been with her […]